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think for a moment that the following issues:

Do you have any problems with your business that are not resolved?

You spend hours fretting

on how to solve seemingly intractable problems?

you get a peaceful night’s sleep every night? Or do you wake up again and again a problem or problems?

Do you feel stuck in a loop unproductive, where you go round in circles to achieve something?

your energy is spent and join through the day, rather than focusing on the future and how you can increase profits, and the life you really want? Do you have questions or problems, you pull down and drain your energy? They do not have the energy to develop strategies to solve problems or avoid, and to move

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then read this article help you solve these problems and manage to give you the tools you get rid of the anxiety once and for all.

do you know that some doctors believe that most medical problems are mainly caused by anxiety or constant worry? Ronge gender tenacious, your well-being and appear to grow, the more they continue? Do not get me wrong, I’m not for a moment that the medical condition is not valid and in many cases, very painful. It’s just that most of a state of mind, where fear and stress are slowly creeping into our lives, and before we know it because the ulcer is formed or is suffering from arthritis or another disease.

Dr. Edward Podolsky wrote a book called “Stop worried well” in which the effect this has on worries describes:

– The Heart

– Hypertension pressure is fueled by concerns

– Rheumatism can be caused by worries

– stomach ulcers and intestinal problems are fueled by the desire – literally turning the “good / p problems thyroid

– - Diabetes

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Dr. Karl Menninger wrote a book entitled “Man against himself.” If you want to stop working against yourself, then get this book. It shows what you can do yourself if you are destructive emotions in your life.

can dominate “- just say” and get tools to not only alleviate symptoms, but to ensure they are not repeated and prevent them from forming in the first place

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my own business for over 10 years were performed during this time to successfully overcome some major trauma, including the death of my husband to cancer and still have my young children through the loss of his father, and facing a professional fraudster, robbing me of the time I targeted, exposed to a significant amount of money.

So you can be sure I really understand what fear is. I really know how fear can seep into all aspects of your life and your pump energy.

But the strategies that I mentioned in this article these questions and growing a successful business was built to overcome. I sleep deeply every night in peace. I share the tools in this article with a warmth and a genuine desire each of you who have or fear may be submitted at the time of reading help. These tools not only from personal experience, but years of study were born and reading by various authors on the subject.

More simply, they work.

As with any piece of knowledge that you have read or learn, it is only useful when it is applied. In this sense , here we go. Apply the strategies you like the sound and the work and ignore the rest … … …

Strategy 1: Focus on today

How many hours in the life of the people are wasted on housing, which can not be modified or reversed, or what has not happened yet?

Take this example from the book of Dale Carnegie “How to stop the worry and start living “by a young man named Ted g Bengermino in April 1945, took an interest in a so-called” transverse colon spastic, “a condition had produced severe pain. He said that if the war n was not finished when he thought he had a physical collapse. In April 1945, he wrote … “I was exhausted. I was an officer of the graves for the 94th Infantry Division. My job was to help to build and maintain records of all those killed in action, missing in action and taken to the hospital. I had to help exhume the bodies of two enemy soldiers allies who had been killed and hastily buried in shallow graves, while the battle of division. I had to collect the personal impact of these men and see they were back on the parents or relatives, the value of personal belongings would be sent so I was always afraid of what could be embarrassed and worried I was going to make serious mistakes, if I come through all this worry a son of 16 months that I had never seen before I was if I -… wanted to live to hold my baby in my arms concerned. I was so worried and exhausted that I lost 34 pounds. I was so wild that I was almost out of my head. I looked at my hands, they were a little more than skin and bones. I was thinking of going home after a physical wreck fear. I broke down and cried like a child. I was so shocked that tears started when I was alone . There was a time after the Battle of the Bulge began, I cried so many times that I almost gave up all hope of a normal person again.

I landed at the military pharmacy. A doctor military gave me some advice that my life has completely changed it .. After me a complete physical examination, he informed me that my problems were psychological “Ted”, he said, “I want you in your life to think like an hourglass. You know, there are thousands of grains of sand in the hourglass up, and they all slowly and evenly through the narrow neck in the middle. Nothing you could do or I would be more that a grain of sand to pass this narrow neck made without the hourglass. You and I and everybody is like that hourglass. As we begin the morning, there are hundreds of tasks we feel we need to reach that day, but if we do nothing, they are one after the other and let them spend the day passed slowly and steadily, like the sands of the hourglass narrow neck to get there. Then we must break our own physical structure or mental. I practiced this philosophy since that memorable day, as an army doctor gave it to me.

A grain of sand at a time … … …. A task time.

This advice saved me physically and mentally during the war and also helped me in my current position in the company. I found the same problems in the economy that had emerged during the war: a score of things should be done at once – and there was little time to do them. We were low in stocks. We had to deal with new forms, the arrangements of new shares, changes of address, opening and closing of offices, etc.. Instead of tight and nervous, I remembered that the doctor had told me, “one grain of sand at a time. One task at a time.” By repeating these words to me again, I reached my duties effectively, and I did my work without the feeling of anger and confusion that nearly destroyed me had

on the battlefield “” / p> life one day at a time. One task at a time. It’s amazing how much can be achieved if we live like this.

Does this mean that we no effort to prepare for tomorrow? Not at all. However, the best way to prepare for tomorrow, with all the energy, intelligence, all your enthusiasm for the job now well today.

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World War 2, our military leaders were planning the. tomorrow, but they could not afford to not be afraid Admiral Ernst King J, led the United States Navy, said: “I am the best man with the best equipment we provided, and they have what appears to the Smarter mission. That’s all I “

We can not have more than our best. Whether in war or in peace think the main difference between the good and bad thoughts g, which is good thinking deals with causes. effect and led to think bathroom design logic of planning often leads to tension and nervous breakdowns

Thomas Carlyle live a life free of fear through the application of this principle. “Our core business is to see what is small in the distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand

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Ask yourself these questions …

Do I set aside in the present life, to discuss the future or longing for something to worry trend “magical rose garden on the horizon” Do I sometimes bitterly regret this, which in the get past – and finished with more than I receive in the morning determined to “seize the day” – to the extreme out of these 24 hours? When will I start doing this? Next week? morning? Today

strategies would be number one, just let go of what is past and can not be undone.

> Let tomorrow if she wants. focus your energies on Today, you put your work in the best of each day. Under a task at a time. Put your attention on the actions that he brings forward.

Yesterday n ‘is

Tomorrow is not promised to us

To get the most from the presence of a gift for her

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Strategy 2: Seek where you can help

How many people think they have a problem by itself to solve? If very often, especially in business, it is better qualified than the people they surrounded themselves or with specific experience of the matter at hand.

There is no written rule or law that states that the contractor must know the answer to everything. There will be times when it makes sense to seek professional help.

One of the worst aspects is a fear that is destroying our ability to think clearly and concentrate. This is especially true if we do not have the skills or technical knowledge to solve the problem. We feel that we “should” know the answer and ourselves under enormous pressure. If we are concerned our minds jump here and there and everywhere and we lose all power of decision. Does this ring true for image you? Have you ever stood in the middle of the room and literally transformed a 360 degree turn and not knowing where to go? It’s time to talk to someone to use the expertise of others and we relieve the burden of knowing all the answers.

If you are a sole trader, there is always someone who someone who can help them be white. Very often, all they are just waiting for be asked.

It is human nature to want to help people. Have you ever asked for help and was rejected? My guess is highly unlikely.. people love it, s asking ‘they can help and often goes out of their way to do this

Here are some simple steps to help you:

Clearly identify what the problem is to take note of that. It’s amazing how powerful this simple act suddenly everything is clear to many simply by writing what the problem really is. Often, once you get to watch black and white it does not seem like a monster as it was in your head if you honestly allein.Identifizieren need the skills to address various aspects of the problem you habenErmitteln which may be more appropriate to consider the various elements of the problem to inform you of the best you, to solve each item.

Act, including the action where you are looking for someone who can help lift a huge weight on you.

Keep busy. The best remedy for all evil is to take action. Any action should be.’s employees .

Strategy number two is to accept that you do not have a genius at all, or any other field, to be successful. ask the right people for help or information is a key to successful businesses and eliminate the worries

Strategy 3. Learn to analyze and solve “problems worry

p> Rudyard Kipling wrote:

I keep

six honest serving men

(They taught me all I know):

Their names are What and Why and when and how and where and who are

The basic steps of problem analysis.

Get the Facts —- analyze the facts, we arrive at a decision and act on that decision

concern is so often caused by a state of indecision. We go to the proverbial circles and never reach a conclusion. or more often a decision and action, any action that will solve the problem .. Even though, in retrospect, was the decision turns out to be not the best that could be made, do not worry, the pain of indecision is much greater than the pain of a bad decision

. us every step in the order .

Get the Facts -. If we have all the facts, we can not even try to solve our problems intelligently. Without the facts we stew about in confusion Herbet E Hawkes said. “causes confusion is the main cause of concern, half the worry in the world of people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision will have,” said he, s’ he has a problem that must be confronted at 15:00, then next Tuesday, he refuses even to try to make a decision next Tuesday at 15:00. In the meantime, he focused on obtaining all facts bear on the problem. I do not care. I do not remember torturing my problem. I do not lose sleep. I’m just concentrating on top of all the facts, and next Tuesday to come, if I consider all of the problem in the rule are triggered.

“If a man to devote his time to secure all the facts impartially and objectively, concerns usually evaporate in the light of knowledge”

Do most of us do not think I put it when Thomas Edison “There is no cure for which a man will not resort to avoid the work of thought “-?. if we bother with facts at all, we are chasing up the facts that reinforce what we already believe and ignore all others, we just want the facts justifying our actions – the fact that in our fits comfortably Magical thinking and justify our pre-conceived prejudices

Is it any wonder that we find so difficult to get answers to our problems?

So how can we overcome this? We must keep our emotions and thoughts that we have to ask Dean Hawkes them to ensure the impartiality of the facts objectively.

This is not light work, if we are worried because when our emotions are in great demand here are some ideas for “Dale Carnegie can help: ..

claim that you are collecting data for someone else. This leaves the personal element and helps to maintain an unbiased view of the evidence, you are a lawyer preparing to argue the other side of the issue. In other words, try to get all the facts for yourself – all the facts you want, all the facts that I have not harmful happy face

analysis of the facts -. clearly define what it is you concern. Also note here: A problem well stated is a problem half solved. The simple act of writing often clarifies the situation.

To identify the source of the problem. Find the root of the problem, what did you start on the mechanics already gone that way. So many people waste so much time and energy worrying about something and never clear what caused the problem or even clearly define exactly what the problem.

for data on both sides. Once you have gathered all the facts and then make a note of mine on both sides of the case and on the other side of the case -. In general, you know the truth and the answer lies somewhere in between

Identify all possible solutions. All kinds of things you can do about it. Come with a list of options. Even the act of writing all sorts of options brings clarity to your thought, and often jumps to you.

What are your options from one or two in writing and will form the basis of your decision. Let your thoughts flow through the options, indicating what each is, and you will be amazed at how a jump will be with you.

Come to a decision – choose one of the options identified and immediately begin the implementation of this decision in the action .. Do something. If our decision, we all have our facts and the analysis is complete loss of energy.

Once a decision is made and the action starts completely dismiss any responsibility and concern for the result. Listen to rethink not. Without paralysis by analysis endless. Take action. Go with him. Some action is better than nothing, better than endless analysis. You begin to feel free to follow your steps and not worry. Do not get lost in self doubt. Do not keep looking back over his shoulder.

If the facts impartially collected and identified all possible options, and have led to a workbench. Go with him. ACT. For all that will be the result will be much better than in a place of indecision. Use the other strategies described in this report to determine, we can not and do a lot with all that is the result.

keep busy in this way is in itself a powerful strategy for the disposal must be provided. It always feels better to do something rather than nothing, which, in despair.

Strategy number three is connected to collect all information and facts relevant to your problem, identify all possible solutions and let yourself be drawn then answer these questions and do not look back

Strategy 4: Consider the worst happens and with it

This strategy is particularly effective in situations where to start you see no way out. There are huge trucks and relieve a huge amount of pressure to form and, if we know what’s the worst that could happen, and while we can cope.

If the fraudsters had targeted professionals, while my husband was dying and I discovered that my husband had changed his will for me to be nothing. At the time it was difficult to work through the emotional stress of everything for my income has dropped and it was a real possibility that I would lose my house and my children move in a time of high stress for them and focus I had, has threatened to engulf the issues of weight for me. But with regard to this strategy, the worst that could happen, then the confrontation with her helped me get through and in fact, things will turn out. I realized that the house is only bricks and mortar and the most important thing was my children, we still had each other and our health, and really nothing else mattered.

Here is a simple three-step formula to deal with him:

Ask yourself: “What’s the worst that can possibly happen if I did not solve my problem” Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst when trying to calm nötigDann to improve the worst. With the release of the worst you think your shoulders are in a position more clearly on alternative strategies that will improve the situation.

true peace comes from accepting the worst a Chinese philosopher. In other words, energy is released when we are the worst thing that can happen to agree, we get a “new life” where we have assumed the worst, we have nothing to lose, and that automatically means we have everything to gain.

Consider this example: New York oil dealer has been blackmailed. He did not believe that something like this happens in real life, only movies, but it was true he was the victim of blackmail. What happened: he was the head of an oil company and had a number of vans and drivers. At that time, OPA regulations were strictly in force, and they were rationing the amount of oil they could one of their clients. ~ Unbeknownst to the dealer had one of his drivers deliver oil briefly to their regular customers and then sell the surplus to customers their own. The first head of the company was aware when he was visited by a man claiming to be a government inspector and demanded money silence. He said he had documentary evidence of what had that his driver, and threatened to transform the data to the prosecutor’s office, if he does not cough.

Now the head of this company knew that to worry about anything too personal, but he knew as the law says a company is responsible for the actions of their employees, and what is worse, if the case came to court and was released in the newspapers of the bad publicity would ruin his business.

It was so worried that he was sick, he did not eat or sleep for three days and nights. He went in circles crazy. Does it cost money, 000, or should it tell the man to go ahead and worse? Anyway, he tried to decide that ended in a nightmare.

happens then take Dale Carnegie paper concerns he received from his class public space and came across a story by Willis H Carter and his council, for the worst. Then he asked, what is the worst thing that happened when I was able to pay this blackmail and in turn to reject the prosecutor’s office on their records, the answer was the ruin of his business is the worst that can happen. He did not go to jail, all that would happen is it would be ruined by the public. Then he said to himself, “Alright, the company is in ruins, I recognize that mentally. What happens next? Now ruined my business, I’d probably look for a job . It was not bad. I knew a lot about oil, there were several companies who are happy to face, I could, “he began to feel better. The blue haze that was in the last three days and nights began a little lift. …. And calmed his emotions to his surprise he could think of.

To improve the worst – he knew enough

running three front step. When he thought of the solutions presented a whole new side of himself. When he told his lawyer, the whole situation, it might be able to find a way I had not thought of find. It seems silly, but it was not even occurred to me before – but then he had not thought he had do not worry. So he left determined to do his thing first lawyer in the morning – then he went to bed and slept like a log

How did it end? Now, his lawyer told him to go to the prosecutor’s office and tell him the truth, and that is that he did. When he was done, was surprised to hear the DA say it was extortion for months and that the man was a government agent spent a crook wanted by the police. Can you imagine the relief? to hear that after torturing days and nights

never be too big to ask for help. Often they give you a different perspective on a situation, one that only you can ever be.

strategy number four is the worst thing that can happen, that your energy is released can accept, you give a new breath of life that allow you to think more clearly, to find a solution. It is literally “life is a weight off my shoulders”

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change

Courage, things that I can change,

And the wisdom to know the difference

Strategy 5: Relax

Now, I hear you say, “Oh yes just to tell you,” and I understand that if you are involved in a problem and you’re worried sick, literally, that it can be extremely difficult to relax and rest. Strategies would be number five is all about developing habits of a lifetime , you fall back on periods of stress and ship disk.

If you live a life where you have integrated relaxation techniques, methods that have proven, then you are better of themselves, then they will get their money, if you really need them in times of stress and worry.

Develop a daily routine that includes physical activity. In this way you enjoy. Do you want to walk ? You can enjoy 30 minutes in the gym? Or swimming? Or maybe you like it is a house you form one of the many exercise videos that are available. What is good for you, what you build into your daily life is to enjoy. The key word here is to enjoy, there is no need to do something you do not like you or because you feel, or even worse, because you should feel. Find something you really enjoy doing. Yoga? Pilates? Spin class? Everything that’s OK as long as it is physical.

We all know the benefits of Exercise regularly. It is generally spoken in terms of healthy life from the perspective of weight loss and lean body mass. However, I suggest here a way of life that some form of daily physical activity will help you understand also your energy level that will allow you to get better with stressful situations and especially you an outlet, a way to vent when you have to worry about.

During the year, people in general are focused on the task at hand, if we look around and see the world. If you work to develop this habit if you are worried, you have an automatic mechanism that will allow you to turn off, and which alone can help to overcome this problem is at hand.

We’re not talking invaluable for an hour in the gym every day. 20 minutes is all it takes aim. Do you think for one second. If someone you said, an hour of exercise long walk, I bet most of you have replied: “Oh I can not do it I do not have time”, now the time 20 minutes …. Feels better, does not it? 20 minutes is not most of the time, “Oh, I can easily install in 20 minutes”

In addition, develop the habit of relaxing your body every day just before bedtime is a good time but all the time that works for you is in order. To do it here suggest that 20 minutes for the reasons stated above. There are bands of meditation and self-hypnosis tapes available or follow this simple routine ….

lying in a comfortable place, or when the workplace in a lunch break, you sit in his chair with his head and arms supported. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath that fills your lungs, then exhale slowly. Repeat this 3 times each time the thought of your breath you take.

now focus on your feet and do as they are too heavy and mentally try to raise them and you can not feel pain heeeaaaavvvvyyyyy, turn your attention to your calves and consider